Safety Issue 3:
When Preparing to Leave

• Seek a protection or restraining order in court. Make extra copies of the order and keep them in safe places.


• Open a checking and/or savings account in your own name so you can start to establish or increase your independence.


• Rent a Post Office box to receive mail that may not be safe to receive at home (court or other legal correspondence, housing applications, etc.)


• Think of other ways in which you can increase your independence, such as having your own car.


• Keep a cell phone that has 911 pre-programmed as well as your local domestic violence agency’s telephone number.


• If you do not have a cell phone, carry important telephone numbers with you at all times (24-Hour crisis hotline, friends, or relatives). Also carry change or a calling card with you for emergency phone calls.


• Review your Safety Plan as often as possible. Remember: Leaving may be the most dangerous time.

Remember, if you print a copy of this material, KEEP IT IN A SAFE PLACE and away from your abusive partner.